I’m in love with my boyfriend but my mind keeps going back to this
I used to talk to two guys at the same time a while ago, but I ended up dating one of them because I genuinely liked the second guy him more. We’ve (with 2nd guy, obviously)been together ever since and I’m honestly completely in love with my boyfriend.
The other guy( 1st guy) was from my field too, but we stopped talking. Then on my birthday he randomly texted me saying he still loves me. I was honestly shocked because I didn’t expect that at all. I never replied, ended up blocking him, and moved on.
But ever since then I’ve been randomly thinking about him and it’s messing with my head because I KNOW I love my boyfriend and don’t want anyone else.
I think the reason it’s bothering me is guilt more than feelings. Like I keep wondering if I hurt him badly by ignoring him and blocking him without closure. Now I’m overthinking whether I handled the situation too harshly.
Has anyone else experienced this? How do you stop thinking about someone when it’s not even because you want them back? Do tell me what to do.