u/Any-Let-8528

I have had a total of 13 anal fissure surgeries in the last four years. I just had my 13th exam under sedation with Botox. A lot of weird stuff happened. Before surgery I told my surgeon I was having significant issues with my left side, I had an abscess there in January. I am talking spams that won’t stop on perineum, burning when I pee, pain, can’t sleep kind of pain. He looked before he took me back and said he definitely wanted to look. I went to surgery and I remember waking up screaming because I could feel what they were doing to me. My surgeon came out and asked my husband several times was I taking something that would prevent me from being put under and I don’t. He only had me in the operating room 15 minutes. He said he saw nothing. Before my eyes were open the spasms were back worse than before. He told my husband a second opinion is recommended and he is considering an ostomy. Here I am day 4. I am miserable. I have spasms that remind me of early child birth. I bleed when I try to go to the bathroom, pass gas, I can barely stand to walk on my left leg. I am in hell. I wake up at night crying and it takes pain meds with ibuprofen to keep me to sleep. I have cloudy pee. I have never been this miserable. I realize nothing he did during surgery helped me, but I didn’t think it could make it so much worse. I have an appointment in a week and a half with the second opinion, but I think I need help before that. Who do I call? The surgeon who says he sees nothing or the new dr who has never met me? I am scared I will end up septic while everyone waits around and everyday o get worse. What should I do? Please don’t say go the ER, I will only go there if I don’t go to the bathroom by tomorrow or I start running a fever higher than the 99.5 I already have. The ER is just a treat me and street me solution, not anything that will help with what I am dealing with.

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u/Any-Let-8528 — 11 days ago

I had Botox injections and exam under sedation today. Even with symptoms of a fistula/ abscess, the surgeon saw absolutely nothing. The shots only amped up my pain and the spasms were there as soon as I opened my eyes.

I think my surgeon finally gets my pain, they struggled to keep me under sedation today. I remember waking up screaming from him examining me. He told my husband it took a lot of medication to keep me under. He told my husband we need a possible second opinion an he’s recommending an Ostomy to allow whatever this is to heal.

Anyone else have anything like this happen? Thoughts?

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u/Any-Let-8528 — 14 days ago

This Wednesday will be my 13th exam under sedation due to fissures/perianal abscess. I always get nervous about now. This time I am scared. I had a perianal abscess last time (end of January’26) this time I had to beg for EUS, he only agreed if I agreed to Botox for fissures. Which I have had, this will be my third time and it never works. I honestly think I have a fistula. Where the abscess was feels like an open cut, it hurts most all the time now, going to the bathroom makes it worse, there is also a lot of pressure when I go to the bathroom where the cut feeling is, touching it makes it worse, movement makes it worse, I bleed every time I go to the bathroom or pass gas. Saturday I went to the bathroom and whatever I did put me in the bed for the day. I suspect I have a fistula that is really making my very typical fissure really mad. I am scared I will be put out and wake up with drains. Anyone else go through something similar? Wish me luck.

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u/Any-Let-8528 — 16 days ago