u/Anxious_Mama_79

I need some advice. A little back story 1st... we have been together off and on for 9yrs now, he had mentioned early on in our relationship that he had had some oral experiences in the past with another male, I didnt think much about it. A few years later we started doing some swinging with other couples. He expressed interest in just an additional male which I was ok with but it never worked out. He never came right out and said he was bi, it was just a thing that if it worked out itd be great for him. We split for a few months last year and the person he was dating did some dildo play on him... he loved it. Now that we are back together he has admitted its definitely something he enjoys and wants to continue which I'm fine with. Watching videos of him play with himself is a big turn on and so is other videos I've seen of others playing. We are also hoping down the road we can find a play partner for him (no im not asking for that in this post) im rambling ... anyways I tried to please him one night and he said the other girl did it better. (That kinda stung to hear) granted I've never done this before and its been awhile since hes had it done. But I guess my question is... is this something that takes practice to learn how to please him in this way... I'm not gonna lie I'm worried of the she did it better every time. Any advice is appreciated.