I have 2 small children 2&under (2 year old is autistic) ,my partner( EX) won’t leave my home he keeps trying to hold onto a relationship that’s no longer there. Him and his passive aggressive mother are constantly judging me and picking me apart,
Stating it’s my fault that my child is autistic.
Every argument every disagreement they’re threatening to take my child off me, it’s like I’m trapped I’ve never had any support from them and I’m basically doing it myself.
He’s a freeloader I pay for EVERYTHING, and his moneys his.
I have brought up concerns to his mam about the way he is and how quickly he can lay his hands on me. But I just get gaslighted or told boys will be boys and once I rang her because he’s choked me out and she called the police on me because apparently it was me doing the psychical assault yet I had hand marks all around my neck.
To show what she’s like; I told every one not to kiss my newborn once to my family I told his Dad once,but his mother I told her 10 times and I ended up snapping and shouting then for her to play victim and started crying to my partner that I shouldn’t be like that it’s HER grandchild, or when my son got covid I should of called her so she could travel 4 hours to where I live because I carnt look after him properly since he gotten ill( which was because of his dad he caught it).
He uses my mental health from my past against me, and the fact my father’s a schizophrenic is the highlight of his topics.
But I’ve never done anything to be a bad mother, my children are well looked after clean well fed. I don’t know what to do I carnt stand the thought of them trying to take my children from me and it’s making me become a shell of a person that I was it’s soul destroying.
How can I get away from this?