Genuone question. Not trying to self hate here. So to be fair I dont go out alot, but recently being single ive only ever been hit on maybe 3 times ever by guys around my age and it's on a rare occasion.
I tried some dating apps and maybe its the ones I was using but only older men like 30 and up are mostly the ones who dm me. And It just reminds me of that thing I heard once that if a guy can get with women his age its bc hes a loser and women his own age dont want him. So im thinking wow only loser older men want me. Isn't this supposed to be my prime? People have told me maybe im just intimidating bc of the all black and eyeliner thing I have going and ppl are scared to talk to me, but I also think thats what you say to make ugly ppl feel better abt themselves
When im out on public I make alot of eye contact with guys on accident and ive been catcalled but who hasent? And also thats not a positive thing anyways.
So honest opinion, are guys my age scared to ask girls out?
Or is it me?