Our baby is 11 weeks old. He has been out drinking/partying 4 times since she was born. The first at 3 weeks old to 'wet the baby's head' from 8.30 am (Sunday) and didn't return until 4.30am the following morning (Monday) and missed the baby's hospital appointment. The second was when she was almost 6 weeks old, for an all day stag and returned at 3am. The past week he has been out twice for weddings and returned at 7am and 4am. He then spends most of the next day in bed, hungover. I am so so angry but I honestly don't have the energy to argue with him because he doesn't see anything wrong.I probably wouldn't mind as much if he were a hands on dad but he's not. He changes one nappy a day,if that, and will feed her a bottle when he gets in from work. He also never does a night, he has offered maybe 3 times in total but tells.everyone he offers every night. I have been out for a friend's lunch for 3.5 hours once and left baby with him and he said it was a 'disaster'.
How do I go about this? I am sick of it. Oh, and he isn't like some 20 year old, he is almost 40!