u/Antique-Calendar-466

heyyy so can someone please help me?? im so confused rn

on thursday night, out of nowhere, my dad (48m) told me he was going to vietnam to see his sister (46f). i was hesitant but i asked him why and he said "uhhhh i just havent seen her i guess" and i could tell something was up but i didn't want to know.

so yeah the situation with my aunt has been pretty weird lately, and i know there's a lot of shady stuff going on in our family rn that they don't think i know about.

he left for the airport at 4am.

my little sister (13f) didn't find out until this morning because she was at a sleepover. my mom is acting like he's not even gone, and nobody has said anything since he left. no calls, no texts, nothing.

watching him pack his suitcase with such a grim expression just left me with such an eery, unsettling feeling that i don't know how to explain, and what's worse is he didn't tell me until just 6 hours before he left.

it was so last minute, and i think there must have been an emergency or something, otherwise i'm sure he would have said something MUCH earlier.

a lot of weird stuff happens in my family, but this time im genuinely worried, especially since the last time something popped up out of nowhere, i found out that my close childhood friend had died.

I guess i still haven't really gotten over that, and i've just been really paranoid in general lately, so maybe i'm crazy.

i've pretty much just lost track of what's okay and what's not, because i'm so used to things happening that make everything normal fall apart again.

could anyone tell me if this is something to be concerned about?? i don't think i'm in a place to make good judgements right now...

and im fine btw!! I don't feel anything at all, even if i wish sometimes that i could. 😅 hah