u/Anonymousliveroflife

How to deal with sadness/fear for my non BPD Parent?

Mother uBPD and father is quiet and has autism.

He is 65. She will kick him out of house and he will sleep in the car. He will drive around until 1am until she calms her.

He is elderly. I get afraid for him. It is bad for his physical and mental health. But I can’t force him to leave. And I can’t force her to change.

I feel strong feelings of sadness and pain for my father.

How have you overcome the sadness and pain of thinking of what your non BPD parent experiences.

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u/Anonymousliveroflife — 2 days ago