I absolutely hate it when my mom offers to pay me for something and I say thank you thinking she was being nice, but days later I do something she doesn’t like and all of the sudden I owe her 400$ from something she OFFERED to pay me for. This pisses me off because why are you switching all of the sudden after making me believe you bought the thing for me out of the goodness of your heart??? It’s like no you never bought it for me to be nice you bought it to one day use it against me when I do something that you don’t like.
And on top of that it feels like every time I make money for myself somehow it keeps on being taken away by my mom from some random debt I owe her. I say something she doesn’t like, then boom I owe her 100$ from food she bought for me weeks ago. I’m only 15 and I don’t even have a job yet so most of my money is from selling clothing from my closet in which my mom says is technically ‘her’ money since she bought the clothes for me. Like at this point I’m so fucking exhausted of her and I feel stressed all of time because I’m thinking about how to get money. Like I’m trying to progress financially but she’s making it so impossible and I can’t refuse because she’ll freak out at me or go crazy.