Hello I (f23) have been wanting to end my 3 year relationship with my (m31) boyfriend for a couple of months now but I dont even know where to start. He is nothing but sweet, caring , considerate and he spoils me so much but over these last couple of months I have started to lose feelings by a lot. We are long distance and I only see him every other weekend, it has been fine but recently just a few months I have not been wanting to go over to his house because I feel bad everytime I do.
The thing is I think I just had enough of something that he does like check my credit score everytime im there or check my bank account or my investment account to see how much i have in there and it gets me upset every time he does. He also talks down on mt family A Lot and I kinda understand i dont come from a nice privliged background at all but still when he talks about him like that it makes me upset because its my family and he knows this. He tries to push me to do things I don't want to do like change my style for one I have an average style but he want me to be goth, I like the style but not enough to be it.
He wants me to watch what he likes like anime but I hate anime (no offense if you like it sorry!) I also feel like i cant share experiences with my sisters or my dad to him because he doesnt have a good relationship with neither of his siblings or dad. But mostly he wants me to move out and cut my family off and I just dont think im ready for that yet at all not for a long time, and I dont want to keep wasting his time on me and I want him to be able to find someone good for him. I want to know if i should breakup with him but I dont know how.. and if I do I would need to get a new phone since he bought me this one im paying the payments on it, and a new credit card I left mine at his house and I dont want to go all the way over there just to get it.