u/Angellace627

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AITAH for telling my husband no to exposing myself in public to him?

AITAH for telling my husband that I don't want to "flash" him more often?

My husband (31) and I (30) have had numerous arguments in the past about how he thinks I should be more spontaneous and flash him more in public and how I should go commando in short skirts on dates. I enjoy being spontaneous but when I feel it's the right moment, not being asked to on the spot or having my shirt pulled up in public by my husband. We have a 6 month old son, my husband hasn't pulled my shirt down around my son or anything, only when it's just me and him. I've tried to tell him to stop, I am not trying to be a prude or anything it's just that my brain thinks of it this way. What if when he forcibly pulls them out or coerces me into doing it and the wrong person (karen) saw it and reported me to the police for indecent exposure. I could be labeled as a sex offender and have my child taken away from me all because my husband wanted to see my boobs. I feel like I am overreacting but at the same time, I feel as though he just should just respect my choice and leave it at that but no, he wants to argue and call me prude or tells me I am just being a "bad wife" I need advice.

TLDR I tried to explain to my husband that exposing my boobs in public to be more "fun" or "spontaneous" could get me labeled as a sex offender and get my son taken away but he says I am overreacting and I am just being a prude. AITAH?

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u/Angellace627 — 6 days ago