Hello, I'm currently on a school exchange in Germany for 6 months. I'm 2.5 months in and my foster mum found out about me hurting myself. It was okay when we talked about it, she herself has a background and didn't pressure me at all. My exchange partner already knew about it, I knew I could trust her.
My foster mum told me about her knowing about a few days ago and said that she wouldn't tell anyone but actually couldn't keep the pressure of, well, knowing that and said that she had to tell my father. She sent me the message that she wanted to send him and I had to validate it or not. I ended up saying no and told her that I'd talk with him tonight but I'm really scared and don't know how to tell him. Plus I don't know how he'd react, I don't either about my siblings. But I think that my mum would cry about it and that's surely going to have repercussions on their holidays to China this summer ( they're going to see her family ) and I don't want that to happen.