u/AngelSmile91

My husband (39m) is not interested in sex with me due to medical issues and a severe PA that keeps him from being able to by physical irl. He’s not in treatment or support groups or anything to fix this, he’s just kind of trying to avoid it.

I (34f) am going crazy with the lack of sex and physical attention. I’m considering asking him to allow me to pursue a physical relationship with others. I have no interest in ending our marriage over it, I just need some physical activity!! I’m not ready to become asexual. Has anyone one been in a similar situation? Could we successfully be open for just me since he’s not interested in irl sex with others or me?