Pregnancy Update
Yesterday, I had talked with her and told her that since she had told me about her situation, she has hardly involved me in it at all and when it came to the finances she was ready to open up.
When we had meet up she gave me a pregnancy test that she had done a day before, this was something I asked for to be sent through text but she refused. I got the test and it showed positive. After I looked carefully in the light I sighed and said to her, I trust you but this is a serious situation. You did a test and you decided to do it when I'm not present and you had gone to the clinic and nothing was given to me just a verbal acknowledgement of the situation. She had also told me to get ready to pay for the abortion and I said that if we combined our money then we can get through this; she said you will be paying for it yourself. It clicked in my brain and remembered that she is currently unemployed because of a minor incident she was involved in at work.
She told me about an abortion center and I asked for a name and address, she said it does not have either even though its literally located located in a busy city, a literal area that does not sleep until after 2AM, she said she needed 60,000 dollars to get it done. I said to myself 'OKAY', it's illegal in my country so I went along with it.
Afterwards, I turned to her and said. I want you to listen to me very carefully, I'm going to give you three options and I need a response now. And these were:
You take a fresh pregnancy test in front of me I will buy it, you just need to pee on it while im in infront of you. They are cheap and were the same ones she used in the clinic. (She said no and this was my third time offering this to her)
You let me come with you to the abortion center on Monday so I can verify everything myself while also providing the name and address of the place. (She said thats not appropriate, I told her that it is especially for the fact that you looked on me since the start of May and I might be a potential father and she said no again and its not appropriate.)
You do a blood pregnancy test at any legitimate clinic and bring me the official dated result with your name on it along with the clinics address, name and with the physician's signature and stamp. (I would finance that visit as well and i would have told her that i wanted some report from the doctor way before yesterday.)
She chose none, even the simplest of test was rejected. I told her I'm done and to not contact me again. My friend who was with me through this situation said that I could have carried her to a motel so she can do the 1st option but I said that her tone and behavior didn't even show any form of pleading or cooperation.