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Funeral tomorrow
I’m still struggling with the words to say. I’ve had 43 days to write this. But I’m a perfectionist, and I feel like I have to write the best thing I’ve ever written to say tomorrow. How do you sum up her 37 years? How do you speak to her parents, her siblings, our son?
I know it’s unnecessary pressure. But I was supposed to spend another 35 years with her. And I feel like if I don’t apply 35 years of effort, I’m not doing her justice.
u/Andiddly — 6 days ago