u/Ancient_Swan_

My sister’s sister in law completely ignored her while she was pregnant so she invited the whole family to the shower and specifically excluded the SIL. I’m mortified even thinking about it because I was raised to be a good-two-shoes so could never do that but she claims it’s the reason she’s not ruminating over it is because she just took the low road instead and watch her suffer the humiliation of being excluded.

It’s okay for other people to see you as human too -rude, cranky, tired,short sometimes. Shedding the persona of perfection helps you get through life easier.