u/Ancient_Band_4935

Basically, how many years should we wait before making the big move and eliminating the distance? I've been with my gf (20f) for the past 2 years. We see each other at least 2 times a year for 15-20 days. I'm already planning to move to her country since we're in the same region, but I'm afraid I won't be able to execute this for at least 3 years.

That gives us a total of 5 years, she said she doesn't minds and we never had a problem with distance, but I'm extremely afraid she might start getting affected by this. 5 years in distance doesn't sounds like a healthy relationship... Should I just give up? I love her and she's basically my everything, I'm currently making 1200 (which is really high in my currency) a month but I want to make the jump to 1400 before planning to move...

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u/Ancient_Band_4935 — 10 days ago

Soy de Perú y actualmente me encuentro ganando unos 1400 dólares en un trabajo freelance, mi pareja es de Guaymallén y últimamente andamos medios inquietos con el tema de independizarnos.

Como dije, gano 1400 dólares y ella gana sus 300 dólares ya que recien hace unos meses empezó a trabajar como tal. Hice mi propia investigación durante semanas pero llegue a la conclusión de que no hay mejor forma de encaminar esto que escuchando sus experiencias propias. Cualquier comentario o consejo será ampliamente apreciado

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u/Ancient_Band_4935 — 15 days ago