Brother engaging in zina
Salam everyone. As the title says I’ve caught my brother in a haram relationship. In short this has been going on for about 2/3 years but I’ve slowly been finding out more about it from my younger sisters. My parents did not know until they accidentally saw a girls name pop up on his notifications. Now course whatever he told my mum saying we’re just friends and we don’t do anything haram is all a lie. I’ve got so much evidence to show my mum that they are clearly in a haram relationship. When my mum found out I wanted to get her opinion and ask her what she thinks and she thinks it’s fine the girl gives him motivation to do uni courses or something and that it’s normal for guys to msg girls. I just told her it’s haram not halal, the girl is a Muslim hijabi but doesn’t make a difference. Haram is haram. Now I haven’t showed my mum what’s I’ve found because she honestly might collapse but it’s getting to a point where I’m honestly jealous of my older brother. He gets away with sooooo much does nothing to help within the house, all he does it eat sleep and make a mess and honestly annoy us. He is also super disrespectful. I will also say my mum is def a mums boy she thinks her son is the best and is soo respectful when it’s the opposite. So my question is when do I show my mum everything? Do I? Or what. I’m slowly hinting at her to go through his msgs with the girl but she thinks that’s something private and she shouldn’t do that. I think that’s complete BS and she should be supervising because apparently my brother is “serious” about this girl who lives in a different country 💀. This is because the msgs between the two of them are honestly disgusting. They have also secretly met irl as I found a photobooth picture sooo Yh.
As an older daughter my whole life my brother just gets away with everything and when he does something bad it’s okay because he’s a guy. Pisses me off genuinely I reallly want to show my mum so she can finally see her son isn’t who she thinks he is but she’ll probably make the excuse that he might go rob a bank if she confronts him and she doesn't want her poor baby to do bad things. I also have a feeling that if I do show my mum and expose my brother she will somehow try and find a way to blame me for causing her stress or something because thats how its been all my life so yh.