u/Ancient-Tutor7860

Yesterday my husband told me he has been depressed for over a year.
And i know it’s true because he has not been himself, i have tried to make him happy.
I have not been sleeping well for the last 6 years so he can get a good night sleep(we had a baby and he has sleeping problems), cleaning, baking, making dinner, initiating sex, make myself pretty for him, exercise, taking care of everything outside, mowing the lawn etc etc.
I start to get really sad and depressed myself, because nothing i do makes it better.
And he told me ”as soon as i get back from work i feel ”uggghh”.
That made me so so deeply sad because i feel the opposite way, i get so happy when he comes home.
When i ask him why he say ”nothing is funny anymore”

Is my marriage over? We have been together for 15+ years and this is the first time i feel like he is not in love with me anymore and it breaks my heart.
It feels like i have to ask for love.

He says that it’s nothing, just the feeling of that nothing is fun anymore.
We are doing well financially and i don’t know if that has anything to do with the way he is feeling?
Like he don’t have to fight for anything anymore?
From the outside we have the dream life everyone wants, nothing in out life is hard.
I take all the responsibility at home and his company practically runs on it self.

What do you think?