u/Amelia2235

An ISTJ I’ve been texting daily randomly FaceTimed me and said my texts were “so different” and that he wanted to make sure I was real 😂

I genuinely can’t tell if that’s an ISTJ compliment, curiosity, or subtle concern LOL. I didn’t ask directly what he meant.

When you guys give compliments, are they usually subtle like that?

I’m an INFP, and I think my whole life I’ve been perceived as kinda quirky/weird haha. It’s been interesting watching the contrast between my rambly Ne style communication and his much more grounded, sincere communication style. I love to talk to ISTJ types, you guys are comforting to talk to. ☺️

Can you tell when another Ne user (ENFP/INFP/INTP) becomes comfortable enough to stop filtering themselves/specifically Ne, around you? What does that shift feel like from your perspective?