I’ve (29f) been seeing a good friend (29m) for about a year now and things have been excellent. We haven’t dabbled too much into the bdsm world together although we are both pretty experienced but in different things. We’re both bi and we’re figuring out what will be my first MMF and MFF threesomes. We’ve had some good talks and I know the first go for me is probably going to be a bit awkward like most first time things. We’re not in a relationship and have been consistently seeing other people as well and have had 0 jealousy issues. While I am interested in women I’m also a bit inexperienced there (women are terrifying) and I’m really looking forward to having him there to kind of guide/support me through the experience too.
What should I watch out for? How can I set us up for success? What worked and didn’t work for you?