I have a 3.5 years old boy. He’s the best kid. But I haven’t been happy with his father even before he was born. I just decided I need a divorce. And started looking for lawyers and started the steps. But my biggest concern is my son. He’s a happy kid. I spent all my energy to make sure he is having a happy childhood. But I don’t like his father at all and everything his dad does irritates me. There’s no chance of my husband changing and no change of me loving I’m again.
So I decided (and I believe it’s true) that my son needs to grow up in a house that mom is not always irritated by his dad. And can show love to a partner. And he needs to see what love between a man and a woman. And no more regular fights.
So do you have any personal testimony that growing up in a divorced household actually helped? I know I need to do this but I’m so afraid ruining my child’s life. His dad does play with him. And he enjoys his dad time when he gets it.
Thanks for listening and thanks in advance for sharing your thoughts.