AITAH for asking my partner not to cater to his family member more than me?
Am I wrong for asking my partner to not priotize his family too much?
I 34f and my partner 32m moved in 3 months ago, and every single day before work, after work, and on weekends either one of both days of the weekend he leaves for hours on end to go cater to a family member.
This family member is not disabled physically or mentally just does not drive. He will drive this person to every appointment, to and from work out of his way completely. And for me, I'm afraid to start a family with him because I have spoken to him about this before. And he doesn't see a problem with it. He says they are alone. But they are capable of taking a bus or Uber....
To add. He will work late. Then still spend an additional 1.5-3h catering to this person's needs. Instead of coming home.
Since he doesn't see an issue with this. I'm taking a tally, if I spend more evenings alone than with him present. I'm leaving at the end of the month.
What do you all think about this? Am I in the wrong to expect the future father of my children to not run Everytime this family member needs food, or groceries, or anything at all? And to drive them to and from work every single day?