u/Ambitious_Delay_1808

Hi all, i’m currently in the shower and honestly a bit confused. My partner did not have a condom and so I agreed to go raw on the condition he would pull out. He seemed very certain and clear with me on the fact that he would and confirmed to me that he would no matter what. Well… fast forward and he didn’t. Now i have to go buy costco plan b (cuz i can’t even afford real) and deal with all of the worries for the next month. I was pretty mad but he was kind of just joking about it. I don’t really know what to say. This is my first sexual partner so i don’t have any experience with stuff like this really. Should I of said no in between? He told me he thought about it and just said fuck it..

Edit: I’m taking her to an emergency vet just to be sure. Thank you for telling me not to hold her like that. I just turned 18 and these are my first KITTENS (i have three other cats) so they’re so light i guess i didn’t connect the dots on that. As for not noticing it sooner, i was kind of making sure on getting them settled in before i had really looked down and noticed how bad it looks. I’m taking her and her sister just to be safe. Thank you for all of the advice. :)

Edit 2: She’s totally okay, no infection. They used skin glue on her, which caused the scab. Her incision was red due to licking. Absolute best case scenario.

I got my kitten yesterday and she got spayed ~2-3 days ago. She seems to be eating fine but is her wound infected? I plan on taking her to the vet tomorrow, does that seem like a good idea? She’s 5 weeks old.

Finishing in me without consent?