u/Amanda_Berftjry

I have been working as a nanny for a cellebrity family for several months now and honestly what I have seen during this time is shocking.

On social media and in public they are know as an almost perfect family , they constantly smile , spend time togother and talk about family values and love for children

But at home they hardly communicate with each other. There is a huge number of staff in the house who are copletly engaged in children.

The father is sometimes interested in their successes or hobbies it looks formal.

The mother suprised me the most, she almost does not interact with the baby. And the elders live their own lives completely. Sometimes it seems that the children are attached to more than their parents.

And then I see their family photos and videos, advice on how to raise children and build relationships in the family.

I sincerely feel sorry for the children because they pracrically do not see their parents even though they live in the same house with them

AMA

My friend and I are students. When we moved to another city, we decided that we wanted to rent an apartment, and after discussing all the details, we found a suitable apartment. We were immediately surprised that they handed over the documents through a realtor to sign the contract, and did not come themselves. Then strange things started happening. Our things disappeared or were not in their places.

The owner came to look at the apartment from time to time and everything was fine but when my friend and I left the city our neighbors said that she saw some man at our door it was not the first time and we realized that this was the owner of apartment. From the cameras in the enterance, we saw that it was not the first time.

Then we simply decided to move out of there without arguing and then the interesting thing happened. They started sending us photos of our hygiene products, intimate items and our undwear that was just drying on the balcony. It was not okay for them in adition they presented us with a huge check for damages that were in the apartamenr from the previous owners and refused to return our deposit.

We came to the city to pick up our things, but our case didn't fit the door . They just changed the locks and packed our things themselves. We argued, consulted with lawyers to get compensation , but it would have taken a lot of time and money, so we decided to just prevent them from renting this apartment to other people so that others wouldn't suffer.

We went there every day, where there were potential tenants and told them everything sent complaints about rental ads and realtors. For which they sued us.

Do you think our actions are abnormal or did we do the right thing?

My friend after graduating from her bachelor's dagree decided that she didn't want to be a phiologist and went to work as a cosmetologist. I dissuded her because I believe that higher education is necessary for this . She was convinced that the courses would be enough. Now she has rented an office and actively invites me to her for procrdures. Honestly, I'm afraid because I'm not sure of her professionalism and qualifications. On the other hand , she needs it for her portfolio. I understand this but I don't want to sacrife my skin. She is offended by me and therefore now I feel guilty, although I still stand my gound. What do you think should be done in this situation and should I go to cosmetologists without medical education ? Share your experience if you have had