So a couple months ago my job hired this lady right who is a lead(not a manger but one position higher than me). She’s from Trinidad (a reason why I don’t mess with that side of my family bcus they all act like her) she’s always talking about her sex life, she doesn’t do shit but stand around and talk and is very passive aggressive. So a week ago, I was closing with her there was a rude guest being racist as always and what does this lead do? NOTHING. She calls the store asst. manager to get the guest but the gm is the LAST RESORT. As a lead she is supposed to be able to deal with guest until she absolutely needs help.
After that guest leaves she comes to me and DEMANDS that I turn my badge around bcus the lady “complained on me” I told that hoe(she proudly cheats on her man so that’s what she is) that the guest did not make the complaint on me but on my coworker who was standing next to me. The lead walks away and snitches to the manager that I “disrespected her” and the asst. manager comes up to me yelling in my face. Not even letting me talk. Mind you this asst. manager is always yelling at ppl and speaks mad loud. So I blew it off at first right.
But later that night.. this lady YELLED at me because I didn’t not take my break when my coworker got back. Mind you my coworker was doing closing tasks so I was waiting for her to get back on the register. After she yelled at me, the next morning I spoke to my team leader and then I spoke to the gm of the store. I also sent in an email to the gm instead of sending one to HR.
So the asst. manager who was there that day, reads my email and sees that I put him in the email. He proceeds to talk shit about me to my closest coworker and my other coworkers as if they weren’t gonna tell me. So I get back to work and he has a whole different energy. He was saying that he was gonna write me up, get me fired and all that too. So I’m like wassup? Because you was talking shit now you tryna laugh and Kiki in my face.
Like foh. And yesterday he went all day ignoring me, but late at night a couple hours before the store closed, he tried to offer me frozen yogurt and candy and I ignored his bitch ass. Like it’s gay ppl like him I can’t stand. And so I told a manager from another department about the situation (the manager I told had already went back and forth with this asst. manager through emails before to set him straight). Mind you the asst. manager is gay and when he was going back and forth with the manager I told who’s in a different department, he was talking about the manager to the cashiers calling that manger a f*ggot and all that(the manger in the other department is also gay).
So for me to know all this information he still went to talk shit about me. MIND YOU, HR WANTS HIM FIRED!! So I was really thinking about writing an actual HR report because I’m not your child, so don’t yell at me. I try not to be confrontational and shit but man these people really be pushing me.
TLDR; Manager was talking bad about me to my coworkers and threatening to fire me because I reported a lead in my department and put his name in the email saying that he yelled at me. But when he saw me didn’t keep that same energy.
So should I report him or just chill and don’t let my emotions make my decisions?😭