this is just a rant. on wednesday i got really upset and decided it would be a good idea to finally cut my hair. it has been down to nearly my ass for over 3 years and now it’s mid length kinda. it’s short. to me it is anyways. i’m just so upset as it was my favourite feature. everyone keeps telling me it will grow backkk but all i can think about is how if i calmed down a bit i would still have my long hair. i know im being dramatic but im genuinely so upset and regret it so bad. tomorrow im going to the hairstylist to fix some bits and omg if they cut it even shorter i will genuinely just cry and cryyy💔😭. i’m starting to accept it but i just feel as though it makes me ugly and it’s an awkward length. i dont feel pretty anymore and i think the length is ugly on me. my family mocks me and tells me im being dramatic which i understand i am but like ive had super long hair for over 3 years and now its an ugly ass haircut.
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okay so my hair used to be down to my lower back, it was insanely long. so on wednesday i decided it would be a good idea to cut it while going through a mental breakdown. long story short i fucked up massively and lost like 13cm of hair so now it’s 4cm just below my shoulders. i just want my hair back down to where it was before i cut it just before summer starts. my hair grows really fast in general so i do believe it is possible. i’m having a hard time trying to manifest my hair growing longer, i just can’t stop obsessing over it as i truly loved my long hair. does anyone have some advice ?
ik it’s kinda a dumb question but i’m jw bc i keep seeing ppl online saying do it before the new year so i just want to know if i can do it now.
okay so i love to use visualisation for manifestation but whenever i do the exact opposite happens. even when im not actively trying to manifest if i think of a scenario the exact thing happens. it even happens with my dreams. if ive dreamt of failing a test or something ykwim the exact opposite happens. i feel like it seems so stupid but i swear i could imagine anything and the literal opposite would happen. i just want to have it reversed bc i feel like i have to think negatively to have my dream life and i don’t want that. but yeah idk if that makes any sense