
Do guys actually notice upper lip hair up close on dates?
Kinda embarrassed to post this, but it’s been bothering me lately 😭
I’ve always been a pretty hairy girl in general. For body hair I usually just shave because it’s quick and easy, so that never really bothered me too much. But facial hair is something I never paid much attention to before since I figured people probably can’t see it at a normal distance anyway. But recently I started seeing this guy, and now I suddenly notice every little thing about my face…
Especially my upper lip. I realized the hair there is darker than most girls', and when the lighting is bright or someone’s really close to me, I feel like it becomes way more noticeable.
Now every time we’re talking face to face on dates, I get super self-conscious about it.
I’ve tried shaving it a little when I do my brows, but people online always say shaving makes it grow back thicker, so I’m scared to keep doing it long term. I also tried Nair facial hair remover and honestly the results were pretty good, but my skin reacts badly every time. My upper lip gets red, and sometimes I wake up with tiny pimples the next day. I already try leaving it on for less time, but it still irritates my skin.
Thank you for taking the time to read my bullshit; I really need help. How do you all deal with upper lip hair?