Dirty Talk Advice?
I need her to talk more when we're having sex than just moaning.
I'm the top, she's the bot and we never switch roles because that's just how we prefer it. lately I feel like I can't reach my orgasm because there's a lack of communication before, during, and after doing it. i'm not satisfied. i often talk to her about it, I'm very open of my desires, the dirty talking and "initiative" but there hasn't been any changes. she just always say she's "shy" or that I needed to "help" her to do so. she's saying i need to lead her to do it, though I always do, she still won't.
as a top, it is very crucial for my orgasm as I'm not the one getting penetrated.
am I asking for too much?
any tips? what are words/phrases/ sentences is best to say that works?