my boyfriend (25) and i (28) are doing long distance and we’ve been together for about 5/6 months. I found out a couple weeks ago tha im
pregnant and since the ive been more and more uninterested in him. he will do everything for me and this baby and i could not give a shit rn. he says he will move to my country sooner so we can work on our relationship before the baby comes, but like i dont know what i want. if he said hes out, i’m not sure if id feel loss right now. hes full in love with me but i don’t think i love him all the way. i told him this relationship is very different from all the others i had. its normal and a bit bland… its not toxic and i dont have to win his love. he really is perfect but its all a bit too much too sooner and i feel like im acting like the men ive dated. I want to change but how do you know if you want to be with that specific person the rest of your
life. its all scary.
when we are together everythings great. but when i dont see him; out of sight, out of mind. also, he wants to support me and the child but im also unattractive on his job… he’s in hospitality, and like i want him to go back to school or at least do a side job so we have more money. but his priority is happiness or money, but im
more realistic and know what we need to survive. but im trying not to focus on that cause there will be resentment.
advice?