AITA Am I in the wrong for not wanting my bf to have coffee with an old hook up?
My boyfriend 32 told me 42 he’s going for a coffee tomorrow with his friend who is a girl.
I realised she is someone he hooked up with last November 2025 shortly after we met and when we were casually hooking up.
I was upset and he cancelled.
She doesn’t live here. She flies in occasionally for work. He says they haven’t spoken all year we have been together. it’s been 5 months.
I feel like this is odd. Why are you meeting up to be friends with someone who is not a friend, who you met on a dating app and hooked up with and have apparently not been in contact with.
Wtf is happening here? Is this a major red flag?
u/Altruistic-Pear-661 — 7 days ago