u/Altruistic-Hour3129

I (20M) and my gf(18M) is in a relationship for the last 6 years, we love each other very much and want to take this to the next level by having sex but we are very paranoid about her getting pregnant, we have used plan B earlier for very stupid reasons, we want to have sex but it's very tough as both of us have this fear mongering above our head as what will happen if the condom breaks or something, she has regular periods most of the time and it rarely delays or happens faster, she has currently passed her ovulation phase and her periods is supposed to happen on 6th may, we are planning for something in between, I don't want to rely on plan B or this contraceptives as these fck up her schedule and she has immense pain after consuming them, what can we do to stop this fear and have sex safely, please help!