u/Alternative_Tune5640

وهو إنّه لو النص ما وصل للبشر للي إنت وصلتله اليوم، فإذن إنت بتأوّل النص عشان يمشي على اللي تبيه. لما يكون العلم هو اللي يخليك تعيد سياق الكلام، مش الكلام هو اللي يعرّفك، فهذا مجرد تأويل، والشخص بيسفسط.

وبرضو، فكرة إنه قال إن كفار قريش عجزوا، بينما القرآن نفسه يقول إنهم لا انبهروا ولا عجزوا، بل استهزؤوا:

{وَإِذَا تُتْلَىٰ عَلَيْهِمْ آيَاتُنَا قَالُوا قَدْ سَمِعْنَا لَوْ نَشَاءُ لَقُلْنَا مِثْلَ هَٰذَا ۙ إِنْ هَٰذَا إِلَّا أَسَاطِيرُ الْأَوَّلِينَ} [الأنفال: 31]

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يعني هو عارف كويس وعشان كدا مرضاش يجوز بنته وعارف إنها مش مناسب حتى رغم أن السن إلي اطلبت فيه أكبر من السن إلي تزوج فيه عائشه!!!!! عشان كدا إلي يقول أجسامهم وعقلهم زمان غير بيستهبل

So why not make the situation about the girl who actually wants to be saved first and doesn’t want the others saved before her (which's not Elena), and because of her desire she is being selfish, she tells him to choose her above everyone else instead of being in a position where she is forced? Why does this sentence give me the feeling that the girl doesn’t want to face the psychological consequences of her choices with courage? I mean, what this sentence is expressing is that the girl in the situation is already selfish and doesn’t want anyone else to be saved before her and is feeling this narcissistic selfish feeling? So you also feel like the decision is framed as if this act will be carried by the person who forced her into it because she was forced, so she doesn’t feel or bear her selfishness if it is her inner desire. And why does her desire even have to be “inner,” and I read between the lines like oh, I’m outwardly sacrificing for others but inwardly I’m narcissistic and I want someone to take the decision from me so I don’t feel the weight of my choices?

Also why is the problem about the two other sides, where one will respect her decision, whether saving her first will be done or saving the others will be done, because she is a person whose desires should be taken into account despite his opinion and desires, and there's the person who forces her into a position she is not convinced with will give her a miserable life where she will lose everything she cares about because he is not considering anything except his own needs above everything she values or needs, and that she might be miserable in such a situation?

So here the choice is between respect and possession, not who loves more or the question of whether he will save the world or save her? Because the situation is not like that…because in both cases the girl needs to actually wants him to save her first, but one will prioritize her and one will prioritize the greater good. But here Elena’s needs in this situation are different because Elena’s actual need is that she cannot live in place of someone else or have someone die for her sake and all of that weighs her down with grief and resentment, and also that if she is forced she will have to live with the feeling of being restricted, and that is so bad - being restricted and not being taken into consideration, feeling stupid and naive, and it leads to a sense of inferiority for the person Elena is in this situation. So one person will prioritize her needs and desires above him, and another will prioritize his own needs and desires above her, because he is not able to see her as more than someone who serves his benefits and his need for her in his life, and he is not able to feel her situation and her feelings as an independent person.

My opinion after all.