I just wanted advice and other peoples views on this. Idk if im seeing it badly because i truly am spoiled or it really is too much.
My mother is pretty lenient with topics like dresscode, boyfriends, partying and those things. But for some reason when it comes to my phone or video games she always goes too far. At first I believed she would confiscate my phone because i truly was the problem. I wasnt studying enough or maybe I was bit rude. At one point tho she started deleting my socials off my phone, replacing my emails with hers so she can see if i login and putting parental controls on my app store so I can't download the app again. At first she'd take everything away with the excuse that I wasn't studying and she'd say if I study I can do whatever i wanted. But when I started doing good at school and even improved any unhealthy habits I had like playing to much video games, she then started searching for problems with my friends who have never been a problem. She'd get mad that I'm going against her when she says something that doesnt make sense and she'd then take everything away again. She used to also tell me that it was my fathers rules when we lived seperately (due to his work) but when we moved in together it clearly was all her. At some point I even noticed she regularly checks my phone/texts based on search history in my settings for apps or her mentioning something i never told her.
Am I crazy for thinking she has insane control issues (fyi im in senior year highschool and she's still like this). Its just rlly frustrating never having any privacy whatsover.
Im beginning to want to change all my passwords the second she takes any parental controls off so she cant put it back even tho ik she'll get mad. I js feel like social medias and phones shouldnt be this big of a deal?