Hey everyone,
I got an intimate problem with my new bf. We’ve been together for about 4 months and basically every time we get intimate, he loses erection. At the start we’re messing around a bit and during that he’s usually fully erect. But as things progress, he gets soft, then he usually gets hard again after some 5ish minutes or so, but very often not fully hard and isn’t completely erect. Sometimes he gets it back on fully and is able to come, but that is not always the case. Penetration practically wasn’t possible yet.
Once he asked me to look up something on his phone and when I opened his browser I saw a tab with porn site opened, so he has no issues with masturbation, apparently.
He also smokes on daily basis (weed and few cigarettes) so I am wondering if that could also have some effect…? Otherwise he’s fit and healthy but not ripped or anything. I do believe this all could be a mental issue and I do not take it personally (that much) yet, but as time goes by it’s getting more and more frustrating..