u/Alternative_Froyo790

Why we all started living in a way where aesthetics is everything. Everyone is just running after aesthetic home, outfit and even their social presence is according to some aesthetics style.
Why we all running from colours and why we all judge people who does have these standards?

Where is the space of self impression and even after being a Pakistani we are minimising our prints our culture.
Its just random thought tell me whats your point of view?

Please share any good aesthetic clinic in Lahore for marks on face? Also share your experience and how it went. I have no acne on face but skin is not soo fresh

I am a 24F, and I honestly do not know whether I am attractive or not. Women often praise me, and men do too, but I have always taken it as people just saying nice words.

Throughout my life, multiple men have approached me with the intention of a relationship. I still have some good options and they are genuinely good people, but I am just not sexually attracted to them. I cannot imagine being physical with them. That does not mean I mock or disrespect them. In fact, I respect them a lot.

There is one man in particular who has been interested in me for around three years. To be clear, we have not been in constant contact during these years. We just knew each other, nothing like daily conversations or a close relationship. He never mentioned marriage before, but this year he started talking about it seriously.

The issue is that it is not just him. I have felt the same way about other men in the past too. I simply do not feel attracted to them physically.

So I need honest advice, especially from married people: can a marriage work if a woman is not attracted to her husband? I feel uncomfortable and even disgusted by the idea of physical intimacy, and I do not think that would be fair to him either. Can these feelings change with time, or should I not move forward in such situations?

I am a 24F and I honestly do not know whether I am attractive or not. Women often praise me, and men do too, but I have always taken it as people just saying nice words.

Throughout my life, multiple men have approached me with the intention of a relationship. I still have some good options and they are genuinely good people, but I am just not sexually attracted to them. I cannot imagine being physical with them. That does not mean I mock or disrespect them. In fact, I respect them a lot.

There is one man in particular who has been interested in me for around three years. To be clear, we have not been in constant contact during these years. We just knew each other, nothing like daily conversations or a close relationship. He never mentioned marriage before, but this year he started talking about it seriously.

The issue is that it is not just him. I have felt the same way about other men in the past too. I simply do not feel attracted to them physically.

So I need honest advice, especially from married people: can a marriage work if a woman is not attracted to her husband? I feel uncomfortable and even disgusted by the idea of physical intimacy, and I do not think that would be fair to him either. Can these feelings change with time, or should I not move forward in such situations?

Hey Amazing Ladies,
Today is my first day of periods. I never had pain in my life for reference I am 24 years ild. Never had pain but today I felt extreme pain and after some hour it was gone. But now I am feeling extreme exhaustion and fatigue till the point I am crying. I feel like I cant even hold my body weight. I am too tired and so burnt out.
It was also first day of my job. It was amazing less working hours i dont think its about that.
What I can do now to feel fresh.

I want to ask people in Pakistan about this idea of government job supremacy. I understand that government jobs offer stability, but that seems to be the main advantage. There aren’t significant annual raises. In the private sector, I receive benefits like a provident fund, and my salary is much higher than what a government job would offer.

Recently, my friend and I were going to the office and saying, ‘Alhamdulillah, we have good jobs.’ Suddenly, the Uber driver said, ‘Ma’am, real good jobs are government jobs. What success is there in private jobs?’ And honestly, I keep hearing the same thing from everyone around me, telling me to apply for government positions, even though I’m earning much more already.

I want a clear, numbers-based comparison to understand which is actually better, not just arguments about ‘respect.’”