I (22F) live with three other people (24F, 20M, 19M). Recently, 20M roommate asked us to wash the dishes, the thing is I wash my own dishes and that's it, I have other things to do than washing other people's dishes. When I told them that, him and 24F started to get real mad at me and 19M, like they started to scream and everything (the dishes are theirs). I clean everything after me, but they still got mad that me and 19M roommate didn't do any cleaning, but I'm not cleaning other people's mess I'm sorry, I did this at the beginning but I can't anymore. It went on and on for two days, and the second day, 24F, after sending a full book of rebukes, asked if we wanted to go out for a drink that night and talk this out because she said it wasn't worth fighting over things like that. I had an exam literally 30min after she sent those messages, so I said that I didn't read all that but still answered her last message and said that I wasn't interested. Her boyfriend, 20M roommate, then called me fat?? He said "but your love handles seem to interest you, given how you maintain them", 24F then proceeds to say that I smelled bad? And she went on on calling me a b*tch, a mean priviliged white french girl (she's white too, studying in a foreign country and speaking like four languages so in my book she's a more privileged white girl than I am but anyway), and her and her boyfriend went on like all day insulting me. All of that because I said that I didn't want to do other people's dishes?
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