u/Alpha_Beta_Gama23

Salam!

My office is on MM Alam Rd, and I have to go to Johar Town Phase 1 daily in the evening.

So I am looking for a room to rent near any of these locations, or somewhere in b/w.

I don’t want to live in a hostel, nor do I want to live in a shared space. So ideally, I’m looking for a case where people rent out one room (like a guest room, facing the street, something like that), and I could rent that.

If anyone can give me any lead regarding this or knows someone renting out in these areas, I would be really grateful 🫂

I’m a decent person (at least, in my opinion, lol), from a decent family. I will be at my job during the day, and will be back around 8–9 normally, and will most probably be doomscrolling after that, or maybe working on some freelance project.

Shareef-un-nafs insaan hoon actually, just want to live in a quiet and decent locality.

Okay so I have tried Muzz & Rishta sub here on reddit. Have talked to a few great people (women ofc) with the marriage intent, but didn't continue with anyone (due to diff incompatibility points I'd say; timeline, religious approach, etc).

I do work from home (freelance), so there isn't any point in advising me to look around & find someone to approach, lol. Even if I would be working on site, I just am too hesitant to just approach someone directly, unless she has clearly stated that she is also looking for one (don't want to get involved in friendship - a personal choice - so don't have any females in my circle too).

Now, I'm very much serious about it, and actively looking for the one. My family is also looking for potential match, but it's just that they are quite on a slow pace. Now I don't want to sound desparate and push them again n again. So I'm more focused on finding the one myself. Also because I wanna talk to her without any family involvement first, feels more non-awkward.

So now my question is, how to do that, except Muzz & Rishta sub?

Are there any Fb groups where the candidates approach each other themselves, like without the involvement of family first?

I know, such question has been asked here already, and I myself have replied to those too. But usually the replies have the mentions of Muzz/ Rishta sub, or fb groups where profiles are normally operated by ammas!

It's not that I don't wanna involve mine, my family already knows that I'm trying on my own too. Neither do I have issue with the girl's family being aware, it's just that the initial conversation should be between me and her, without the direct involvement of families.

And it's not that I'm rushing things or being v desparate. I just want to try better and smarter, while ofc praying for it. I just personally think it's v high time that I get married and don't delay it any further.

Baki ofc jesy Allah ki marzi, jab bhi us ne likha ho ga qismat mein!!

- Haven't used chatGpt, so ignore the mistakes, if there's any.