I don't know if I'm attractive, I'm asking girls out more, and there is one I've had a keen interest in asking out, I asked her out Thursday, she said she had to ask her dad for permission or something along the lines of that, I've done some research and watched videos in the past to for this type of stuff, and at first I was like "Oh ok, I get it, she probably has a lot going on at home." I texted her Friday evening to ask how she was doing, we hadn't seen each other since the morning I asked her out before school, for context we're both juniors in high school, she responded in the text saying she was ok and just tired from the school day, and when I lightly asked on updates on what her dad said I said "Ok, just let me know if you're free tomorrow and I can set something up." and she said I'm going out with my grandma and sister all day tomorrow, she then sent right after something along the lines of "i got to go to bed, have a good night." I can't exactly remember what she said, but it was something like that I'll update it when I can. But am I cooked? Is she subtly rejecting me? For context we're in the same friend group we have interacted quite a bit, but nothing beyond talking what we were doing at the group meet or at school, we've never met outside school besides group meet ups, and I don't know a lot about her situation with family or not, the grandma thing caught me off guard which is why I'm making this post. Am I reading too much or just paranoid?
u/Alpha0513
I feel so limited and constrained, my family is extremely Mormon and religious, due to some things I did in my past, my parents don’t really trust me with anything, but I’ve stopped doing those things, but because I don’t believe the things they do anymore, they don’t trust me, I can’t have a girlfriend outside of our church unless they approve of her, I can’t have any privacy, they monitor everything, and I love driving, I love it, but my jerk brother won’t give up driving for any thing, he acts like he’s never driven before whenever I or my sister want to drive to school, and he’s just piece of crap on top of all of that.
i just want to be able to be free and do the things i want to, and without people watching me constantly. If anyone wants try getting to know me or has any advice what to do, dm me, I’m 17 and in high school in TX