what’s up gays. asking here bc i wanna be candid and get some perspective. I’ve been playing around with anal for many years, and it’s never given me the overwhelming pleasure everyone says. I’ve gotten fucked, used toys, used fingers. And it’s like… fine.
When i use a toy, and i start getting into it, it kinda feels like i have to shit, even though i know im okay. Is that just how anal is? do you just feel that pressure and ride it out and it eventually kinda turns from a “i gotta shit” feeling into pleasure?
I can’t quite tell what my prostate feels like, when i get a toy in deep enough it feels like i hit a wall or something that feels like my bladder, but im not like… sure if that’s what’s happening. Is it okay to hit that spot? is that the bladder? What does hitting your prostate feel like?
I wanna get better at anal for my partner, would love some perspectives to help out!