I’m 41F, I love sex. Never outside our marriage. My husband 41M is not always in the mood. We have had multiple conversation, I have been gentle, understanding. I have also told him I get really horny during my ovulation period ( girls you’ll know about this, I’m sure). Every month cones and goes and I have a very high sex drive but nothing happens. sometimes we do it but not fulfilling for me. I want to have sex sessions. One whole day, multiple times, enjoy each other-nope nothing happening. We do have sex, but I know he is not very involed. He focuses on making me come by fingering. And most of the time he doesn’t cum..
This has created a friction in our lives and we always argue about this. Is this normal men?should I just live this life? Am I asking for too much??