how do i(f24) deal with being ghosted(m28)?
So i’ve been talking to a guy for a couple months who i met through social media. we’re both in the same niche and make content, he sent me a dm one day and at some point it turned kinda flirty. turns out we were both interested in each other. it was normal until something very serious happened in his life. i really appreciated him being so vulnerable with me and i’ve really tried to show him that i support and care about him. ive defended him online and i support him personally. things were still good between us but eventually he kinda went ghost for a little while, i gave him an out and i said i don’t take it personally i just understand he has too much going on. he said no he does have a lot going on and that’s why he’s been quiet but he really wants to talk to me, he’s grateful to have me in his life, and really likes me. i told him that i’m there for him no matter what and i do feel that way. we’ve never met bc we live in different states but after that he asked if id come stay with him i said i want him to visit me. anyways a little while after this he’s completely disappeared again. i was trying to encourage him to start posting again, he never replied, i sent something light hearted he also never replied, i tried to call and got no answer (within the span of a week). he’s started posting a bunch again so i feel like im actively watching him ignore me and honestly my feelings are hurt. he even replied to a comment of mine right away which made me feel like hes REALLY just ignoring me. if there was some kind of communication id be understanding but now i feel like now im left wondering what i did. do i at this point just accept it i feel like if i push any more im just being annoying to someone who clearly doesnt want to communicate with me