My coach is 25 years old, he coaches girls in highschool volleyball. Back then i didn't think that he was weird but things get concerning. Let's call her X, X is 15 years old, a student athlete who is also under coach ***'s guidance. It has been a few weeks since we joined volleball (at that time) and she told me that coach was being weird. She showed me their unnecessarily long conversations and the weird things he saidd and asked, "Can i court you?", he also compared her to his ex multiple times (his long term relationship), mind you X is only 15 years old.
we ignored that 'cause we didn't want to think bad of him 'cause he's literally our coach. BUT things took an unexpected turn..X told me that she has a crush on coach ***. They talked as in romantically, not in a way that players and coaches talk
M15 joins the chat. He spills everything to other players, and obviously they avoided coach ***. Coach then figures out and he went absolutely nuts...He crashed out and kicked out all the seniors out of the club group chat, so basically the vball club is falling out cause he kicked out all the good players. He even confronted them all which is very unprofessional.
Coach *** is unfortunately part of our circle. X is my bestfriend. we're in one friend group so we all hang out..we've seen them do stuff they shouldn't do (ykwim), and it's concerning as heck. Im worried about X but we can't reach out to her. Coach *** handles all her socials and possibly even her number, we can't tell my mom 'cause she'll definitely tell X's mom, X's mom is extremely strict and can go to the point of abusing her physically, we don't want that to happen..Coach *** is isolating her from us, her friends and we don't know what to do
(english isn't my first languagee and this is my first time posting on reddit, im nervous af)
We need to save X