Uncomfortable with meta
I’m really struggling with a meta of my husband’s and not sure how to handle it. This is one particular meta who my husband has not necessarily broken boundaries with but also has been in messy situations. The first example I have is: there wasn’t a strict rule of not bringing people we just met for the first time in person back to our home, so the first time he met her, she came over and I was irritated for him bringing someone who is essentially a stranger into our home.
After that, there’s just been one thing after another like that where we’ve had to clarify rules but it has now led to them breaking the safer sex practices rule. I’m concerned about their relationship continuing since safety is apparently not their top concern.
I know that there is a certain level of experimentation when it comes to boundaries. I expect a sort of learning curve when establishing them in the beginning but the safer sex practices was clearly established from the jump.