AITA for calling my gf gross?
We were talking earlier and in the conversation, she asked me if I lick people's cheek? I said no and that please tell me she doesn't do that. She does apparently but "only with her close friends as a joke" I told her that's a bit gross. She then told me that everything she does is "gross to me" that's not true.
We had a bit of tension after that and I apologized for offending her and being a jerk, but I was still a bit disturbed and felt like I wasn't really wrong. We left the conversation at that and I was then talking to my cousin, and I thought to ask her if I was being too harsh on her. She agreed and told me it is gross. My gf came back to relieve the tension between us and we started talking but it was still about that. She defended herself and emphasized its only with close friends and it's not a passionate lick.
I told her That is weird. Am I the asshole? Should I not have said that?