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INTJs, can you feel a strong emotional connection with someone and still not actively pursue it?
I’m an INFP seeing someone (INTJ) who I feel a real emotional and physical connection with. He shows up consistently, makes time to see me, and we’ve had some quite meaningful moments together. But when things get more explicitly emotional, he seems to pause or need space to process rather than move things forward.
Is this something you relate to? If you do feel strongly about someone, what tends to hold you back from pursuing or defining it more clearly?
u/AlgaePhysical2423 — 16 hours ago