Red flag for a date
I like him as a person but i have problems with sex with him. Basically he told me he doesn’t like a long foreplay because it won’t get him hard. So he wants me to always touch or suck his dick to make him hard. The problem is when he gets hard, he want penetration immediately and finish his things.
He explained if he doesn’t get hard, he loses interest. I feel he is not interested in giving me pleasure and the idea to give me orgasm wont make him hard. He just keeps on putting my hands to his dick or ask me to blowjob when i am enjoying kissing and touching him .
so i feel like this behaviour on bed is so selfish? Is it a red flag?
[Thank you all for your advices and replies! It is just confusing that in daily life, he gives and serves a lot but when it comes to understanding my desire and needs in communication and sex, he will be in a gesture that that is me. But a guy complaining foreplay is too long is really surprising for me. But after reading all your comments, i feel like it is time to talk last and see and then move on. Thank you all! 🙏🏻🙏🏻]