Karma
My wife divorced me when an emotional affair started with my son‘s boxing coach. I remember He was right in the middle of it, came home that day saying Mom do you like that guy? Do you like him? He was hounding her and finally, she admitted it. this is right at the beginning of it and she told me that she found him attractive and that was all she said and I said well we all find people attractive so there’s no harm in that. But little did I know how serious it was in her head. Only a month later did I find out how much it meant to her when she called me telling me how she felt like she needed to say sorry to him and she can’t take my son to his class the next week and she’s gonna have to have her mother take him because she felt bad. That’s when I realized how serious it was and looking back over the events of that month how she lied about turning her location off and made a push for him to get his own phone so the kids didn’t see her messages anymore, and other things that were out of the ordinary. It ate me up the whole time while I was fighting for our marriage, but she was already checked out and often La La Land with this guy in her head. I was stressing for my son that he has to watch his mom trying to hit on this guy and if they got together, I would have to go and see him every day if I wanted to be a part of my son‘s boxing. It was awful.
Well, today he went to class and he was on the other side of the gym with the coach. He’s 11 years old. And out of nowhere apparently, he says hey coach I need to tell you something. coach says yeah what’s up? he said my mom likes you. coach said “oh? Well, I’m married and I have kids, but your mom is awesome”. And at some point in the middle of class, he told Mom that he said that and Mom split quick when I showed up a little later. On the way home, he told me what happened. I was in disbelief.
Anyway, I don’t give a shit who she dates. I’ve lost all respect trust and desire for her. But I just didn’t want it to be my son‘s boxing coach where he had to take lessons from some guy that his mom was hitting on and fantasizing about and I didn’t want to be put in that situation where if I wanted to be involved in his boxing, I would have to see The Guy she broke up with me for. Funny how things work out.