u/Alert_Pudding_9894

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Bf left me to go talk to other woman while pregnant

For context we were having issues and he was upset towards me because he didn’t like the idea of me having male friends, had one and he got upset and accused me of being a cheater which he held over my head for a while

Come time of my gender reveal I’m currently 18 weeks , he admits to me he was never loyal throughout our 3 year relationship. After this we had a decline simply because he actually couldn’t trust me now that he knew I had a guy friend , not the fact that he’d admitted he cheated.

A while after I told him I needed time to think and he lashed out because I wasn’t telling him how I felt then and there when he wanted it so he broke it off , took the car , took my engagement ring etc. we get on the phone later that day because I need help and he’s kind of cold towards me which I was like okay ? He then tells me he thinks I should get an abortion .. I’m like excuse me ? Yk what are you trying to say rn ? Mind you he was happy with having this baby a week -2 weeks prior so I’m lost as to what he’s saying rn. He goes he doesn’t feel like he wants to have to be there for this child or have a relationship because he broke up with me , that it’s not ideal for him and his situation. Also keep in mind he also stated when the lease was over he was moving out somewhere else and did not want me anywhere around him . He later then came home and asked me to lay up with him which i rejected because of what he had said and the breakup

How should I go about his reaction towards the baby ?

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u/Alert_Pudding_9894 — 3 days ago