Common problem I see in people
Ngl I’m barely active on here as I once was but if I had something of benefit to share it would be: to understand the opposite gender better.
This applies to men and women.
I feel like once I’ve understood women, what matters to them, their perspective, their needs, their concerns it’s a whole lot easier to empathise with them. (Can’t believe I have to say this but… this is actually important if I want to marry a woman and have a loving relationship with them…)
Social media tells you that “most if not all men/women are [insert negative adjective]” do you honestly think that’s true? Do you honestly believe that most men want a maid that shuts up? That all women are heartless gold diggers asking for high mahr? and so on…
There’s a great deal of nuance when it comes to understanding the opposite gender. Take the time to understand it, and use it to find genuine people.
Inspired by the post of a girl that thinks men seeking “feminine” qualities means submissive girl ?? anyway.